A list of how I will not spend my time:

  1. worrying about what others think
  2. holding grudges
  3. drinking bad wine
  4. finding ways to ‘avenge’ my hurts from others
  5. cuddling things that are not soft
  6. arguing illogical people
  7. trying to be someone i am not
  8. allowing the stress that came up during my Ph.D. to ever enter my life again
  9. eating Lima beans or mayonnaise
  10. picking on myself

These are the things I will not spend time on…whether it actually happens remains to be seen but sometimes it’s interesting to put down a ‘not to do list’ rather than a ‘to do list’.